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on August 20, 2017

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Disappointed?? Who actually is??

4 years’ Sam wanted a toy car desperately. But his Mom said no. He lied down on the floor and started crying in the market. Mom got really upset seeing him crying, and bought him that toy. 5 years’ Ria wanted to take her favorite sunglasses to school. Mom told her that it’s not allowed in school. She started hitting her mom, and cried that mom doesn’t love her. Mom couldn't see Ria crying and said yes. These, and similar incidents, happen with us every day. And what is wrong with these incidents? As soon as parents saw their kids being disappointed, they too get disappointed. I believe, we are the ones who get more disappointed seeing them like that, than actually they are. Since I am a mother of a single child, I too did this many times before I finally realized I was going the wrong path. I overheard my 4 year old telling her cousin that she just have to cry and say 'please' multiple times if she wants her parents to buy her something. We want every...

How to make our home a NO YELLING area

My first blog post on yelling with title " Stop yelling and start understanding kids " received a lot of comments where many moms disagreed with me that it is not possible to stop yelling. I replied to each query, stating that it is possible to lessen yelling with small steps. So here I am, with my suggestions that I have applied with my little daughter, and now I yell rarely. 1. Health: I know it's easy to say but difficult to take care of self, when we have kids to look after. But yes, there's a way. I always pour milk in my glass too when I am pouring it for my daughter. I cut one fruit for myself when I do it for her. I put 2 bananas when we leave for her skating classes. I take her to park early morning with me where we get fresh air and her sleep flows away too. So, I don't have to take out extra time for myself, which is impossible. We can get innovative to combine our healthy food along with theirs. I believe that when I am happy and healt...

Pause gives us choices!!

10 seconds of pause gives me a huge opportunity to look into the reason of misbehavior, and not just reacting angrily at that particular moment. Pause gives me choices how to behave in response to my child's behavior; to look gently into her eyes, get her into my lap, hug her to make her calm, and listen to what really instigated that misbehaviour. Dear Parents! Please pause before you react angrily to your child's misbehaviour. They need guidance for the next time; instead of threatening.

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